"And besides, I would suspect that a lot of the time we actually want multiple, possibly conflicting things anyway, like me and jury duty. When I acknowledge all of my wants in that situation, then whatever happens is okay—part of me is relieved and part of me is disappointed and all of me is okay."
Yes, whatever happens is okay. This is a hard concept for me right now. When I have conflicting wants it seems like every possibility is NOT okay. But it is not helpful to me to look at it that way.
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